Baby Love Journey - Wk 25
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
It's been a long time since I last blog 3 years ago.. A lot of things have happened during these 3 years. Chris proposed to me on 25 Feb 2012 at Citylink and we got married on 23 Dec 2012 at Conrad! 2012 was a very memorable year for me. I love to reminiscence about my wedding day and watch the videos again and again. It reminds me of the love that we share, the guy that I love and the sweet things he does for me. Watching these videos make me relive the moment.
Proposal video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gf74XZJ4pV0
Pre wedding video: http://vimeo.com/56319982
Wedding video: http://vimeo.com/56509170
All of these videos were made by Desmond (Chris's best friend) and I sincerely appreciate the effort he has put in to leave such beautiful memories for us.
Back to what triggered me to start blogging again.. It's definitely not out of the blue or I feel bored. It's because I'm PREGNANT!!! In fact, I'm 6months into my pregnancy now. I've been contemplating to blog for the longest time since I found out about my pregnancy but procrastinated because 1) busy and stressed with work, 2) busy and stressed with marriage life and in-laws, 3) forgotten about the password to this blog and the blog address. It's a miracle that I'm free tonight and I tried 3 attempts of password before I successfully keyed in the right password! I'm free because Chris is away in Taiwan for Holiday with his friends for 2 wks. I'm feeling jealous and upset about it but I figured I should let him go enjoy himself since he has been pretty stressed over my pregnancy too. We've planned for this pregnancy for 1.5years but when I'm finally pregnant, I still wonder if I really want a child now and if I'm ready for a child now.
Pregnancy is full of ups and downs, more downs than ups for me. For the past 6 months I've complained so much and cried so much, feeling tons of unhappiness with life. Questioning why I chose to live with in-laws for a start and wanted to try to get to know them better and live in harmony. It was such a naïve thinking back then!!! A lot of people told me in-laws are not easy to live with and indeed it's HARD. I got what I wanted to know them better but I didn't get what I wanted which was to be close to them (like real family). In-laws will always be in-laws and not like your real family. I will never be able to treat my mother-in-law like my mummy or my father-in-law like my papa. There were also a lot of conflicts along the way due to the differences in family upbringing and culture which wouldn't have happened if we didn't live together. Now I look back, if I have a choice again, I don't think I'll choose to live with in-laws for a start to learn how to be a good daughter-in-law and wife. I think marriage life as a couple (just Chris and me) would have been much happier and sweeter.
2nd unhappiness is when Chris has to fly for work and be away from home at least once a month. In the past, before my pregnancy, when he goes overseas, I'll go back to my mum's home to stay and it's the happiest time of my marriage life. My mum will cook dinner with food that suits my taste, I can watch my favourite Korean dramas in the living room, bathe without having to do my own laundry, wrap myself with my huge towel out of the bathroom to slowly dry myself and choose my clothes in the bedroom. I can enjoy all the little habits I used to have and not have to accommodate to anyone. I can be myself and free!!! However, after I'm pregnant, on top of the enjoyment of freedom, I also start to worry if anything happens to me/baby and Chris won't be able to make it back in time. I start to worry about baby's arrival, how can I cope alone, how to fetch baby around, how to feed the baby, whether I'll have milk, whether I'll have strength/tired after delivery. A lot of fears and thoughts fill my tiny brain, on top of the problems and issues I face in work.
Work has not been smooth for me this year. Although I went US for 3months and had fun playing, work has been stressful. Partners I work with are not easy-going folks and issues at work are complicated to solve. I've also offended many colleagues this year and stressed with all the issues and projects being thrown at me. I wouldn't say I haven't been performing well at work, I've been performing very well in fact and almost became a manager. I was ranked 2nd in the management promotion in Sept, among 7 candidates (all guys and older than me). Pretty proud of this achievement and the opportunity to go for the manager panel interview which was an unforgettable experience for me. So work matters have been keeping me up awake at nights.
I'm also up awake at nights due to pregnancy pain in stomach from the baby kicks and hard tummy. Some nights I wake up at 2am and stay awake till dawn. Insomnia only plagues me when Chris is away. When I sleep beside Chris, I'll fall asleep and wake up at 7am, even though in the middle of the nights I'll wake up to pee and leg cramps due to pregnancy, it's not as bad as having insomnia and waking up at 2am! I hope I can get more sleeps before baby's arrival.
Alright, ending off with happy notes, I would like to Thank a few folks who have been great support for me. Firstly, Wansean and her bf, for accompanying me whenever Chris is overseas. Last sat, they came over to fetch me from my hse to Expo baby fair and helped me carry things and eat and chit-chat with me. I like Wansean and her bf. Hope they'll get married, live happily ever after, and our kids will become good friends as well. Secondly, Shufang and Zihui, for accompanying me whenever Chris is overseas. I've always love my Hall friends a lot because Hall is like my 2nd home, and they are like my Sisters. Last but not least, I want to Thank my Baby Love! He's my greatest strength and accompanies me wherever I go. Please stay healthy in my tummy and continue to grow strong. :)
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Europe Trip - Amsterdam
Thursday, December 29, 2011
30 Dec 2010 - Paris to Brussel, then to Rotterdam, then to Einhoven
Last stop in our Europe trip is my sis's current residence at Einhoven (Amsterdam). Woke up very early to go to the train station to take Thalys (express train to Brussel then to Rotterdam before changing the internal Amsterdam train.The train network & seats in Europe are pretty big & on time (minus the hiccup in Epernay).
Finally.. reached my sis's apartment! Love her apartment to bits. Nice view & home by yourself is really nice.
After putting down our luggage, we went out to shop & had a buffet dinner at Einhoven central. Came back with bags full of Zara and H&M clothes, perfumes & lotsa body shop lotions (mum bot for my aunts).
Lunch at Hard Rock Cafe Amsterdam.. the 1st hard rock cafe I went & I love the culture & food.
Finally.. reached my sis's apartment! Love her apartment to bits. Nice view & home by yourself is really nice.
After putting down our luggage, we went out to shop & had a buffet dinner at Einhoven central. Came back with bags full of Zara and H&M clothes, perfumes & lotsa body shop lotions (mum bot for my aunts).
31 Dec 2010 - Amsterdam
The next day, we took a 1hr train to Amsterdam and spent the whole day shopping!
Some phototaking by the river..
Some phototaking by the river..
Lunch at Hard Rock Cafe Amsterdam.. the 1st hard rock cafe I went & I love the culture & food.
After lunch, we took the train back to Einhoven.
My Loots from Europe Trip... hope to go back again.
Last night in Europe was home cooked food with love & toasting to Rose Champagne!!! <3
Ending off with my Christmas gift for Dear last year.. Wallet from Mont Blanc. *love*
p/s: i was testing whether my blogspot account can upload photos & surprisingly the account is full error msg no longer appear. yeah! means I can continue blogging! *grinz*
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Europe Trip - Paris (Part III)
29 Dec 2010 - Epernay
Took a 2hrs train to Epernay for Moet & Chandon tour & reached the little town just before lunch.
We ate at this French restaurant that's super duper good.. until now I'm still loving the escargot.
Luckily we reached slightly before lunch & managed to get a table before the lunch crowd. Ambiance was nice too. We ordered 2 flasks of rose wine to share & it was nice. Cheers!
We ordered a 3 course set meal each & it was soooo good!!!! But the serving time was a little long.. I guess French people like to sit down & talk during meals. We took 2hrs plus to eat lunch & were nearly late for our tour.
First up were the appetizers. We order different appetizers so that we could try all of them. Mine was the smoked salmon, my mum's was foie gras with prawns & avocado & my sis's ham was the worst. Actually I think the ham is not that bad.. juz that maybe the serving was too much for an appetizer. My sis & I ordered escargot on top of the set lunch to share & it was delicious! I love the herb thingy they use to cook the escargot. Simply heavenly & I don't mind going Epernay again & this restaurant specifically for the escargot.
Next was the main course & we were so boring we all ordered the same dish because we didn't understand what the rest of the dishes were. The menu was in FRENCH & the waitress can't really speak English. Nonetheless, the salmon was nice & the pasta was very well cooked & flavored too (although it looks plain here).
Lastly, we had to ask the waitress to serve dessert & we basically gobbled our dessert up because we were running late. Then we practically ran to the Moet factory.. luckily the waitress gave us some directions. If not, we'll be so lost.
At Moet & Chandon..
Tourof how champagne is made.. the cellar was HUGE!
After the tour, we had champagne tasting. We registered for the same type of champagne tour thinking if we register diff ones, we'll be brought to diff cellar. Actually the type of champagne is what we get to drink at the end. So some groups actually ordered diff so they can share & try a variety. Nonetheless, we bot a bottle of rose & a bottle grand so we got to try all too!
The normal Moet & Chandon champagne in their signature flute. Cheers!
And then it's time to leave Epernay.. so sad. I like this place. Snowy & cold outside.
Reached the train station & was told the train employees went on STRIKE! So our trains were cancelled. We spent 1 hr waiting at the station before taking a cab back to Paris & the cab fare cost us ard 250 euro.
Day started well but didn't end too well.
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Europe Trip - Paris (Part II)
Saturday, January 15, 2011
28 Dec 2010 - Paris
It was a long and tiring day because we went to quite a few attractions in a day! Louvre, Arc De Triomphe, Champ Elysees, and Eiffel Tower.. covered all in a day! Omg!!!!! That's quite a number of places. We could have gone to Notre Dame Cathedral too when we change train there but we were too tired and we still had to buy train tickets to Epernay for the next day. The queue for the Epernay tickets was long and we were so tired and exhausted at the end of the day, we had mac for dinner instead of some fancy French cuisine because we were tired to search for food. Mac was quite convenient because it was on our 2mins walk back to our hotel from the subway and we could takeaway to eat in the comfort of our room and rest early.
Start of our 2nd day in Paris.. woke up bright and early, bought pastry from the famous bakery near our hotel and arrived at our 1st destination.. Louvre museum at 9am. We bought 2 pastries each, 1 choc + 1 croissant but I dropped my choc bun and I was soooo sad because it was nice and I only ate half! That's the problem of eating on the go.. but it saves time. Loitered around Louvre for ard 1hr to take photos and walked around to soak in the beautiful architecture. We didn't go into the museum because it was closed. I didn't intend to go in anyway although my colleagues told me it's a must. I don't think I'll admire those art pieces other than Mona Lisa and it wouldn't be worth it to go in and search for Mona Lisa for a few hrs only to stand in front for 5mins.
Here are some photos I took at Louvre.. before we went in..
Start of our 2nd day in Paris.. woke up bright and early, bought pastry from the famous bakery near our hotel and arrived at our 1st destination.. Louvre museum at 9am. We bought 2 pastries each, 1 choc + 1 croissant but I dropped my choc bun and I was soooo sad because it was nice and I only ate half! That's the problem of eating on the go.. but it saves time. Loitered around Louvre for ard 1hr to take photos and walked around to soak in the beautiful architecture. We didn't go into the museum because it was closed. I didn't intend to go in anyway although my colleagues told me it's a must. I don't think I'll admire those art pieces other than Mona Lisa and it wouldn't be worth it to go in and search for Mona Lisa for a few hrs only to stand in front for 5mins.
Here are some photos I took at Louvre.. before we went in..
Inside Louvre.. but not inside the museum..
Some views inside the museum from some windows.. and we've come to the end of the Louvre tour.
Moving on to Arc De Triomphe.. I like this attraction.. Paying to go up there was quite worth it.
Stopped by this grab & go cafe and we each bought a cup of Cappuccino.. Haha.. Firstly, drinking hot stuff can keep you warm. Secondly, my mum is someone who needs a cup of coffee a day to satisfy her caffeine craving. Thirdly, my sis is still feeling hungry.. she says the pastries are not filling.
Arrived at Arc de Triomphe at ard 10am.
We need to climb lotsa spiral stairs.. and everyone was panting.
Arrived at the 1st storey and rested for awhile.. spent some time looking at the exhibitions.
Finally, we've reached the top of Arc de Triomphe! In english, Arc de Triomphe means Triumphal Arch, and in chinese, it's called Kai3 Xuan2 Meng2. It is used to honor those who fought and died for France in the French Revolutionary and the Napoleonic Wars, with the names of all French victories and generals inscribed on its inner and outer surfaces.
Cam-whoring.. Tee Hee..
The roads all meet at Arc de Triomphe so from Arc de Triomphe, we can see the roads diverging like stars.
The names and grand arc structure..
The fire that burns continuously.. even in the rain..
After that, it's Shopping time!!! I wasn't in the mood for shopping because it was drizzling.. everywhere was wet and I just felt gloomy like the sky.
Eyes brightened up at the Mont Blanc shop.. I wanted to buy at wallet for Chris from there.. but because it's the X'mas season, all their wallets with coin pouch are sold out. They only had 1 left which didn't look nice. Luckily, I managed to get one I like at Amsterdam.
The renowned 101 Louis Vuitton.. where I bought a small neverfall bag. I had been thinking of getting it before I went Paris already. Actually I don't understand why people like to shop in Paris.. it's so so so crowded and filled with either China-Chinese or Black-French. Luckily I was served by a nice salesgirl but I had to wait there for quite some time before she came over to serve me. Requested to see the bag from a salesgirl at that counter but she told me she's serving this grp of Chinese and she can't serve me! I was so pissed. That group was like they want to see this this this but in the end, they didn't get any when I left. I've already decided what I want, so if she's smart, she can serve me already and still go back to handle them. Well.. I'm glad someone else served me instead and I got what I want.
After getting my LV bag, it's Lunch time and I had planned to eat Jap cuisine. I've researched and there are a couple of nice Jap restaurants around Champs Elysees but we did not manage to find any after walking for close to an hr. By then, we were so tired, we settled for a Chinese restaurant instead. Food and restaurant deco were nice.. so we were contented.
Everything we ordered were seafood-related.. Tofu with King Prawns, Assorted Dim Sum, Broccoli with Crab Claws and Scallop.
After lunch, we continued with our shopping but after that, we realized we shopped at the wrong place. We should have gone to La-fayette shopping mall instead because that's where tourists shop at with lotsa discount and tax rebate. Shopping at Champs Elysees was a bit irritating because the shops are not linked, they are individual buildings. I didn't buy any clothes because nothing caught my eyes. Only my mum bought some clothes from Zara for work and we left for Eiffel Tower at ard 4pm.
Eiffel Tower from afar..
View from the bottom while queuing for the ticket up..
The elevators were operated using wheels and pulleys system.. Amazing.
View from the 2nd level..
Running out of storage space on blogger already.. so I'm going to figure out a way to blog photos without having to purchase additional storage.
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